Have you ever wondered what vows at a Japanese wedding ceremony? What are the differences between Western and Japanese votes? This article will share the translation and study all the details of a Japanese wedding vow.
There are several ways to make wedding vows in Japanese; this article will look at wedding vows in the Western-style. In traditional Japanese marriage, the Japanese read their wishes and thanks, mostly universal or personal.
In Western weddings, in addition to the option for the couple to read their vows, it is common for the person conducting the ceremony to read them and then for the groom or bride to repeat them or confirm the vows by saying "Hai Chikaimasu" [はい誓います].

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The traditional Japanese wedding vow
The vows below are usually read by the wedding ceremony officiant in the western style, where the groom repeats each spoken phrase. Then it is read again, where the bride repeats the phrases.
The only difference between the wedding vows of the groom and the bride is the word josei [女性] which means woman, where in the bride's vows it changes to dansei [男性] which means man.
- 私はこの女性と結婚し
- 夫婦となろうとしています。
- 私は健康な時も
- そうでない時も
- この人を愛し
- この人を敬い
- この人を慰め
- この人を助け
- 私の命の限り
- 固く節操を守ることを
- 誓います。
Watakushi wa kono josei [man] gets married
I'm trying to become a father.
Watakushi wa kenkouna tokimo
Soudenai tokimo
Kono hito o aishi
Kono hito o uyamai
Kono hito o nagusame
Kono hito o tasuke
The limit of my life
To protect kataku sessou
I swear.
The second type of vow is read by the officiant and confirmed by the couple saying Hai Chikaimasu. One of the differences in this vow is the words for groom, which is shinrou [新郎] and bride, which is shinpu [新婦].
Japanese votes:
しんろう [しんぷ]、(Your name), you are about to marry this woman and become a couple [female].
あなたは、健康(けんこう) なときも、そうでないときも、この人を愛し、この人を敬(うやま)い、この人を慰(なぐさ)め、この人を助(たす)け、その命(いのち)の限(かぎ)りかたく節操(せっそう)を守ることを誓(ちか)いますか?
Votes in Romanized Japanese:
Shinro, (groom's name), you are considering marrying this woman and becoming a couple.
Do you vow to cherish this person, in sickness and in health, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, to love and to honor, to comfort and to protect, until death do you part?

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Studying Japanese Wedding Vows
Now that you have seen the votes in japanese written in romaji, let's look at the votes written in japanese with ideograms and study them sentence by sentence, similar to our articles on breaking down songs.
I will marry this woman.
Watakushi wa kono josei [man] gets married
I married this woman
- 私 - Me;
- この - This;
- 女性 - Woman;
- 結婚し - Marriage;
We are going to become a couple.
I'm trying to become a father.
We are becoming a couple
- 夫婦 - Couple, husband and wife;
- なろう - Become;
- なろうとして - Try to become;
I am healthy too.
Watakushi wa kenkouna tokimo
I, even in the time of health
- 健康 - health, healthy
- 時 - time
- も - also
Not when it is not the case
Soudenai tokimo
Even in time without her (health)
- そうでない - Not have
I love this person
Kono hito o aishi
I will love this person
- この - This
- 人 - Person
- 愛し - love
Honor this person
Kono hito o uyamai
I will respect that person
- 敬い - respect, honor, esteem
Comfort this person
Kono hito o nagusame
I will comfort that person
- 慰め - comfort, console
Help this person
Kono hito o tasuke
I will help this person
- 助け - help, assist, , give aid, reinforce, provide assistance
As long as I live
The limit of my life
during my life
- 命 - life
- 限り- limit, as far as possible, to the maximum, unless, so far as only
To firmly uphold integrity
to protect the ataku battle
protect fidelity
- 固く - firm
- 節操 - constancy; integrity; fidelity; principle, honor
- 守る - protect
I swear.
I swear.
Promise/I swear
- 誓います - I promise, I swear!
These were the Japanese vows of a Western wedding. Did you find it a little different from Portuguese? I hope you enjoyed the article, if you liked it share and leave your comments.